Let’s be honest—nurse preceptors are often expected to be unicorns: wise, patient, clinically flawless, and available 24/7 with the perfect answer. But much of what we think we know about nurse preceptors is… let’s just say, not entirely accurate. Some things are kinda true, but not really.
We assume they are just really experienced nurses. Yeah no! COVID put a strain on the healthcare system and made choosing the best preceptor with the most experience not feasible. This became a time where the only option was a nurse with minimal experience. But experience alone doesn’t make someone a great teacher. Preceptorship demands more than just clinical chops—it requires the ability to explain, coach, and adjust based on how someone learns. The truth is not every seasoned nurse should precept. It’s a skill, not a default setting.
“Preceptors Know Everything”
A famous quote states “Knowledge is as infinite as the universe. The man who claims to know all, only reveals to all that he really knows nothing.” No one knows everything and that’s totally okay. Preceptors are knowledge-rich, but even they don’t have every answer memorized. There is nothing you can memorize. Great preceptors model curiosity and collaboration. “I don’t know, but let’s look it up” is a sign of strength, not weakness.
“Preceptors Teach You Everything“
This one’s tempting—but no. Preceptors guide the journey, but you’re still driving the car.
Orientation is a two-way street. Your growth depends on your effort, too. There’s also a misconception that preceptors just teach skills. Yes, they teach tasks—but the real lessons are in how you think, prioritize, and communicate. A good preceptor helps build your judgment, not just your checklist.
“Preceptors Are Always Patient and Understanding”
Preceptors are humans juggling patient care, documentation, and the learning needs of others simultaneously. The struggle is real and let’s not forget, compassion goes both ways. There will be a time when things feel off, when your preceptor doesn’t appear to be 100% in it. If your preceptor seems stressed, it’s probably not personal—it’s the job. However, if it does feel personal, you will have to speak up.
“Preceptorship Is Just for New Grads”
It’s not.
Even seasoned nurses switching specialties need orientation. Preceptors must adapt. Whether you’re a brand-new nurse or a 10-year ICU veteran new to med-surg, orientation still matters.
“Being a Good Nurse Means You’ll Be a Good Preceptor”
The overlap isn’t automatic. Teaching is a skill. A phenomenal nurse might struggle to explain things clearly—or provide constructive feedback. Preceptorship requires intention, not assumption. Teaching takes practice, just like clinical skills.
In closing, preceptors aren’t flawless guides with endless patience and encyclopedic endless nursing knowledge. They’re dedicated professionals trying to balance mentorship and medicine. They are exactly like you!